Life is a Journey
Clarity is how you find your way.
Clarity first. Everything else follows.
Something shifted in you. Maybe suddenly, maybe slowly. But you crossed a threshold, and the life you built before doesn't quite fit who you've become.
You're not lost. You know something is different. What you need is a clear starting point, and someone to help you find your way from here.
That's what we do together.
If you’ve been wanting to connect with a community of people who are looking for more, here is the link for our in-person event in September.
A full-day experience combining deep inner work with intentional strategic planning — so the clarity you find on July 15th actually travels home with you.
Using the Center methodology, we'll move through the updated Aligned Intensive workbook together, asking the questions most people skip past. Where are you, really? Where are you going? What are you carrying with you that no longer fits?
What's included:
The updated Aligned Intensive workbook — we work through it together
Access to Riviom's sauna, cold plunge, and mineral hot tub throughout the day
Special guest Joy Shaw, sharing her experience with plant medicine and opening the floor to your questions
Catered meals and snacks throughout the day
Special gift to take home with you
MORE INFO ABOUT THIS EVENT HERE
September 18, 2026 · 12pm–8pm · Riviom, Nashville
Limited to 12 participants.
When you go to checkout, you'll see a quick form first — just some basics like dietary restrictions so we can take care of everything in advance. Payment options include Apple Pay, Klarna, or credit card.
In-Person (click for details)Is this you?
You've built a career, a life, a reputation. By almost every measure, you've arrived. And then something cracked open. A retreat. A loss. A quiet realization you couldn't shake.
Whatever it was, you came back different, and the old way of operating stopped feeling like enough. You're not in crisis. You're in transition. And the gap between who you've been and who you're becoming is exactly the territory we work in together.
The Way Forward
Most people start at step five. They set goals, build strategies, make plans — before doing the honest work that makes any of it stick.
We start at step one.
Clarity first. Everything else follows.
You can’t begin the journey until you know where you are.
How We Work Together
30 minutes, virtual, no obligation. A real conversation about where you are and what you're navigating. We'll figure out together whether working with me makes sense.
Complimentary Clarity Call
Based on our conversation and discussion of what you are looking for, we’ll determine which path makes the most sense for your situation.
The Route
Preparation, ceremony, and integration. This is for the person interested in plant medicine, but doesn’t know where to start. I do not endorse any particular ceremony and encourage you to follow your local laws and regulations. I help you with the pre-work and preparation, and post-ceremony work to get your feet back on solid ground.
The Pit Stop
A 90-minute session, in person or on zoom. For when you need to pull over, get your bearings, get clear on what comes next before you keep moving. You may just need a check-in and a mirror to help get centered on where you are and what you’re working on.
For the person who is really ready to dive deep, do the work, and put all that they’ve learned into motion in their life, this is for you. We work together over 6 months to help you walk through major transformations and integrations in your life.
The Passage
Why “Ask Deborah”?
When I named my company “Ask Deborah”, I wasn't asking you to come to me for answers.
I was reflecting something I practice myself. The discipline of asking inward. Of reaching toward my highest self before I reach for a strategy, a plan, or someone else's map.
That's the invitation here. To ask the version of yourself who already knows. I'm here to help you hear her.